Catnap 😻

When your having a bad day, a catnap is just what’s needed!

So I have been awake since 6am for no reason today (but this is normal for me and usually it is 3.30am I wake), met up with a friend and then went to try and find a dress for my engagement party. 

Result, got the one I wanted in a size 8 even though I am normally a 12! Got money off it to as there was an issue in the print which you can’t really notice. NOTE if you feel the product is not 100% say about it!

Walking around the shops must have took it out of me as I started to get blurry vision and felt like I was staggering. These are new symptoms which I’ve had only today but now I am tucked up on bed with the shakes and a few cuts on my hands which I have no idea where I got them from. 

Well in need of sleep and a furr baby cuddle 😺

How to have a popular blog

This was really helpful to me, as a first time blogger I guess we need words of wisdom. “Never give up trying”


Continuing my seemingly endless series of posts about blogging, I have more tips for new bloggers, or for those of you with tired or stagnant blogs. As I approach my fifth anniversary of blogging, and have reached a current total of 1,222 posts, I have noticed a few things along the way.

Many of us are more than content with our blogging lot; happy with the way things are, and we bumble along in the same old way. Yet there are a lot of bloggers who watch the tumbleweed pass over their blogs. They yearn for more interaction, and become disappointed with the performance of their blog. It was not how they thought it was going to be when they started, that’s for sure. They tire of posting, wonder if it is all worth the effort, and sometimes just give up on the idea.

So, how do you get off…

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Tip of the day 

Be spontaneous!

I have a confession to make…. I bought my wedding dress a year before being engaged! I will tell you why.

I drive past a wedding dress shop everyday on my way to work, and this dress caught my eye. For 5 days I could not stop thinking about it and one day it was no longer in the window and I panicked, so I decided to go try it on crazy I know!

So I tried on the dress and I did not want to take it off. It was my dress. I could not imagine me in any other! But I tried on one more and took it off straight away to shut people up. Now all I get is are you sure you won’t change your mind? Do you not want to go dress shop? My anwser is no! I have fulfilled my dreams with my dress and I am happy with that.

So I guess I would recommend buying your wedding dress before you’re engaged, as it is one less thing to worry about and we are now able to move our date forward a year.But only do this is you have an understanding partner and engagement has been spoken about for awhile. P.s do not do it behind his back!

Good luck finding your dresses ladies 💋

Engagement dress dilema 😥

When you end up in every shop and try on lots of beautiful dresses but none look good in you!

It really doesn’t help when you have been trying to diet but your work colleagues keep buying Krispy creme donuts 🍩 but the worst thing is trying on your size of a dress which doesn’t fit and going a size bigger which still doesn’t fit and have to go up a size! “Coast” you need to work on your sizes I wouldn’t pay £150 to wear a size 16 when I am usually a 10/12.

Great for self esteem 😑.

But seeing beauty and the beast at the cinema was great such a lovely love story, which made me feel like I have found my prince 😍

Let the engagement dress search continue!

First time blogger here, I hope I don’t bore you all to death. This is my blog on how to plan your big day the way you want! I recently got engaged so my aim is to blog whilst planning my wedding. Why? I hear you ask. Well I guess I have a story, well who doesn’t! I will keep it simple. I need an escape route and well this is it. I struggle to find the good in anything, I suffer a lot from having panic attacks mostly during the night which keep me awake for hours. So instead of focusing on the negatives I have decided to put my energy into planning my wedding. Good or bad idea I do not know! So far it has been okish a few bumps but it is getting there, but now instead of just family and friends knowing my struggle the whole world does to but I hope I can help people. I think we underestimate how many people are suffering with a mental illness quietly and I want people to know it is ok! So why the name? Well my main reason my blog is called “The purrfect way to plan your wedding day” is mainly because of my cat Poppy. When I took my most recent panic attack which latest four hours, she was there for me, soothed and calmed me. How does a cat do that? I hear you say, well Poppy is a character and she will be a big part of my blog so if your cat friendly this is a blog for you. Well that is my intro I will be back with tips on how to enjoy your engagement your way! Bye for now.